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How to Use Cock Rings: The Complete Guide

Cock rings, yes, they’re one of the most popular toys in the world, and for a good reason, in fact. They prevent blood from flowing back down the shaft of the penis, which makes erections feel rock-hard, and last exceptionally well, too. And why is it so good? It can mean that edging and sex (via…

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6 Ways to Survive A Breakup

Negotiating a break-up is never easy, I think that’s something I’m sure we can all agree on. But there’s no rule saying we have to be a prize-winning douche bag to extricate ourselves from a formerly well-functioning relationship. So how does one avoid these well-trodden paths of bad behavior? Here are a few top tips…

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Swimming Through the Queen Pool

An underrated issue with being gay is that our pool for friends, sex partners, and romantic interests is the same body of water. At times, it can feel like a kiddie pool with a scarcity of opportunities. Other times, it’s like an ocean that forcefully overwhelms us. How do we graciously and gracefully navigate this…

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Gay Men in Open Relationships: What Works?

Hint:  It will take a lot of work. As a couples counselor working with gay men I am often asked my opinion on monogamy and open LGBTQ relationships. What works for men in long-term relationships? First, the research. Several research studies show that about 50% of gay male couples are monogamous and about 50% allow…

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Spread ‘Em: How To Give A Great Rimjob

A few tips so you can be the best you can be… Eating ass is no longer taboo. Then again, it never was for queer people. As is often the case, straight people were late to the game and came around to analingus in 2015, when it started to receive mainstream attention in rap music and HBO. Because IN is…

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When Is It Appropriate to Ask Your Date if He’s a Top, Bottom, or Vers?

Written by: Bobby Box Sexual chemistry is important for any relationship. But for gay men, determining if you’re sexually compatible requires you to ask a very personal question: “Are you a top, bottom, or vers?” Because dating is outrageously nuanced and there is no set of rules to abide by (multiply that by 10 if…

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The Biggest Mistakes Tops Make

You’re probably reading this headline, asking: “The biggest mistakes tops make – what about bottoms? I’ve had more cases of shit-dick than I can count!” Well, tops, while you’re right in that it does take skill to be an accomplished bottom, being an irresponsible top can cause far more serious health concerns. The ass is…

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9 Essential Gay Relationship Advice

Written by: Sylvia Smith As a gay person, you may have met with your share of societal disapproval in this heterosexual-dominated world. But you have held on tight to what you know is your sexual orientation, and now find yourself in a great relationship. You are finally comfortable in your skin and you want to…

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11 Tips for Being a Better Top

Written by: ALEXANDER CHEVES Let me state this at the beginning: I am a bottom. A marathon-sex, Preparation-H, take-dick-like-a-champ bottom. I tend to outlast tops. Ten tops looking for a bottom? No problem. Why, then, am I writing this article? Because there is no one better to ask about topping than a bottom. And although…

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8 ways to ensure your sex life stays on fleek

Words by Ian Howley As part of our ‘Big Gay Sex Survey’ we decided to ask the 3,141 men who took part if they were happy with their sex lives, and what was important to them. Here’s what they said. We asked: Are you happy with your current sex life? Yes: 47% No: 38% Not…

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Having a Successful Open Relationship

We’re taught from a young age that a “regular” relationship involves a man and a woman enjoying a monogamous bond. As LGBTQ people grow up and get to grips with their sexuality and gender identity, they learn to reject this hetero-normative construct of what a relationship should look like. But the idea that our “soulmate”…

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